Gold Star Mother’s and Family’s Day

Today is Gold Star Mother’s and Family’s Day, a day of remembrance and a day to recognize the families who carry the loss of a loved one who died in service to our nation.

The Gold Star tradition reaches back to World War I, when families displayed service flags with a blue star representing each family member serving in the Armed Forces. When a service member died, the blue star was replaced by a gold star. From that tradition came the terms Gold Star Mother and Gold Star Family.

In 1936, Congress designated the last Sunday in September as Gold Star Mother’s Day. Over the years, the observance has broadened to recognize the families who have shared in that loss, and today we observe Gold Star Mother’s and Family’s Day.

Behind every Gold Star is a name, a life, and a family. The star represents a sacrifice that does not end when the ceremonies and honors are over. For the mothers, fathers, spouses, children, siblings and other family members left behind, that loss remains a part of their lives.

Today, the Air & Space Forces Association Palm Springs Chapter 134 joins communities across the nation in honoring our Gold Star Mothers and Families. We remember their loved ones and recognize the sacrifice of those who served and the families who carry their memory forward.

Their sacrifice. Our gratitude. Always.

Air Commandos Lunch and a Chapter Moving Forward

Wednesday’s Air Commandos Lunch was a good example of what these gatherings are becoming for AFA Palm Springs Chapter 134. It was not a formal Chapter business meeting, but it gave us an opportunity to hear an outstanding presentation, exchange ideas and bring everyone up to date on some of what has been happening within the Chapter in just the last two weeks.

First, a very special thank you to USAF Major Lee Cohen for his presentation on Operation Nickel Grass, the massive U.S. strategic airlift to Israel during the 1973 Yom Kippur War. Lee was personally involved in the operation, and that firsthand experience brought a perspective to the presentation that went far beyond simply recounting the history.

Lee took us through the enormous logistical challenges of the operation, including the refusal of most European allies to provide bases, which forced American aircraft to operate through the Azores and along a long Mediterranean corridor. He discussed the C-141s and C-5s that moved thousands of tons of supplies, equipment and even tanks, and an operation that at its peak was putting an aircraft on the ground in Israel about every 15 minutes. The C-5 proved particularly important, carrying nearly half of the cargo weight despite accounting for a much smaller percentage of the missions.

Everyone was very engaged. The questions and discussion continued well beyond the presentation itself, particularly as Lee talked about his own responsibilities, the people involved and what it took to keep such an enormous airlift operating under wartime conditions. That interaction is exactly what we want our Air Commandos Lunches to be.

But there was another important part of Wednesday’s lunch.

Although this was not a Chapter business meeting, AFA Palm Springs Chapter 134 is moving quickly on a lot of fronts, and we want to make sure our members know what we are doing.

Our new Mission Grant Program is moving ahead. The program will provide one-time grants of up to $500 to a veteran, active duty service member, spouse or family member facing a critical need. We are developing the online application and will establish a three-person committee to review requests so that decisions can be made quickly while protecting the privacy of applicants.

We are very pleased that Chapter member Joe Veca volunteered to serve on the Mission Grant Committee. Thank you, Joe, for stepping up and becoming part of this new program. We still have two positions to fill on the three-person committee.

We are also rebuilding and expanding our Cyber Education initiatives. We have been reaching back out to previous instructors and mentors while developing new ideas for shorter, focused Cyber programs that can reach students throughout the Coachella Valley. One concept discussed Wednesday was a half-day program that could bring students together for concentrated hands-on Cyber instruction. We are also looking at existing educational programs that can help us reach students at different age levels.

That work is already producing results and renewing relationships. La Quinta High School AFJROTC, which has participated with us previously, has told us it intends to register at least one CyberPatriot team again this year. We will be meeting with them this coming Tuesday. We are also continuing to develop our relationship with EAA Chapter 1116 at Jacqueline Cochran Airport as another opportunity to connect young people with aviation, aerospace, STEM and Cyber Education.

We are also looking for program volunteers. We do not expect everyone to take on a major job. What we need are people willing to take responsibility for specific pieces of these programs. We particularly need volunteers for the Mission Grant Committee and people interested in helping with our expanding education efforts. The need for additional volunteers was one of the clear priorities discussed Wednesday.

At the same time, there is a great deal happening behind the scenes. Nancy Parsons, Iain Parsons’ wife, is working to identify new grant opportunities that could help fund our programs. Although retired, Nancy brings 25 years of experience as a paralegal along with considerable experience in the world of grants. We are getting Chapter leadership and organizational information updated in AFA National’s online records. The Chapter now finally has a permanent mailing address at 1775 E. Palm Canyon Drive #5811, Palm Springs, CA 92263-7254.

We are also working to improve our financial procedures and have now met with a possible bookkeeper to discuss professional accounting support. There are many more responsibilities and reporting requirements involved than simply adding and subtracting from a checkbook ledger. Having our financial records and reporting handled properly is very important to our credibility and our future success.

Fundraising will become increasingly important as these programs grow. We discussed crowdfunding, greater member participation and the need to build sustainable funding for both Mission Grant and our education programs. With more than 500 Chapter members, even relatively small individual contributions can collectively make a significant difference.

There is a lot happening, and much of it has come together in a very short period of time. We are building programs, developing new partnerships, improving the way the Chapter operates and looking for new ways to put our resources to work in the community.

That is why we want to keep everyone updated even when we are not holding a formal business meeting.

And again, thank you to Major Lee Cohen for an informative and engaging presentation, and to everyone who joined us, asked questions, offered ideas and became part of the discussion.

AFA Palm Springs Chapter 134 is moving forward, and there is much more to come.

Thanks!

Air Commandos Lunch Tomorrow

Our next Air Commandos Lunch is tomorrow Wednesday, September 23 at 11:30 a.m. at ROC’s Firehouse Grille in Palm Desert, please join us.

We will be joined by USAF Major Lee Cohen, who will discuss Operation Nickel Grass, the extraordinary 1973 U.S. airlift that delivered critical military supplies to Israel during the Yom Kippur War.

As always, Air Commandos is an opportunity to get together for lunch, conversation and camaraderie. But this Wednesday we also have some important things to talk about as we continue moving AFA Palm Springs Chapter 134 forward.

We will be discussing ideas for our new Cyber Program initiatives and where we want to take our youth education efforts. We will also talk about our new Mission Grant program, providing one-time grants of up to $500 to a veteran, active duty service member, spouse or family member facing a critical need.

And we need some help. As these programs begin to take shape, there are opportunities for Chapter members and friends to become involved as program volunteers. You do not need to make a major commitment. Sometimes having the right person willing to help with one part of a program can make all the difference.

There is no charge to attend. You only pay for your own lunch and beverage, and everyone is welcome.

If you cannot join us in person, join us by Google Meet:

Video call:
https://meet.google.com/xad-gpux-okz

By phone:
(US) +1 661-615-8143
PIN: 228 789 989#

More phone numbers:
https://tel.meet/xad-gpux-okz?pin=3132595125246

Wednesday, September 23, 2026
11:30 a.m.

ROC’s Firehouse Grille
36891 Cook St.
Palm Desert, CA 92211

Come for lunch, hear a fascinating piece of Air Force history, bring your ideas, and help us build what comes next for AFA Palm Springs Chapter 134.

Thanks!

Introducing Mission Grant

Today is an important day for the military community.

It is National POW/MIA Recognition Day, when we remember those who endured captivity, those who never returned home, and the families who continue to wait.

It is also the 79th birthday of the United States Air Force.

It seems like an especially appropriate day for AFA Palm Springs Chapter 134 to announce something new.

We are introducing Mission Grant, a program designed to provide one-time grants of up to $500 to veterans, active-duty service members, spouses and military family members facing an immediate and demonstrated financial need.

The idea behind Mission Grant is simple.

Sometimes a relatively small amount of money can keep a difficult situation from becoming a genuine crisis. It might be a $400 car repair that allows someone to continue getting to work. It might be groceries for the widow of a veteran trying to make it through the end of the month. It might be a prescription, a utility bill or another unexpected expense.

We cannot solve every problem. But sometimes as much as $500 can solve the problem that matters right now.

Requests will be reviewed by a small Chapter committee, and applicants and recipients will be treated confidentially. We do not believe someone should have to publicly share a difficult personal situation in order to ask for help.

We are still putting the final application procedures in place, and an online application will be available soon.

Today we have launched a new Mission Grant page on the AFA Palm Springs Chapter 134 website where you can learn more about the program.

Visit AFAPalmSprings.org and select Mission Grant from the main menu.

The mission of the Air & Space Forces Association is Educate. Advocate. Support.

On a day when we remember those who served, honor those who never came home, and celebrate 79 years of the United States Air Force, Support seems like a particularly appropriate word.

Mission Grant is one more way AFA Palm Springs Chapter 134 is putting our mission to Support into action.

Thank You!

National POW/MIA Recognition Day

Today is National POW/MIA Recognition Day, a day set aside to honor Americans who endured captivity as prisoners of war and those who served our nation and never came home.

First observed in 1979, National POW/MIA Recognition Day is observed each year on the third Friday in September. Across the country, the familiar black and white POW/MIA flag reminds us of a promise that has endured for generations: You Are Not Forgotten.

That promise extends beyond those who remain missing. It belongs to their families, some of whom have waited decades for answers. It honors former prisoners of war who returned home carrying experiences that few of us can fully understand. And it reminds us that our obligation to those who serve does not end when a war ends.

For AFA Palm Springs Chapter 134, that has particular meaning.

Veterans and military families are an important part of our Chapter and our greater Coachella Valley community. As we expand the work of our Chapter, supporting them and strengthening our relationships with organizations that serve them will continue to be an important part of what we do.

The mission of the Air & Space Forces Association is Educate. Advocate. Support. National POW/MIA Recognition Day reminds us just how important the word Support can be.

Today we remember those who came home after captivity, those who remain missing, and the families who continue to wait.

You Are Not Forgotten.

Veterans Day – A Moment of Honor and Reflection

Today, we pause to recognize the men and women who have worn our nation’s uniform and carried its responsibilities with courage, commitment, and sacrifice. Veterans Day is not simply a date on the calendar—it is a reminder that freedom has a cost, and that cost has been paid by generations who stepped forward when the country needed them most.

The image here was photographed yesterday at the Fields of Valor installation in Cathedral City. Among two thousand waving flags, each tribute tells a personal story. This one honors a Vietnam veteran who earned the Purple Heart—an unmistakable reminder of the human toll of service and the quiet strength that defines so many who return home carrying both visible and invisible wounds.

As we mark Veterans Day, AFA Palm Springs extends our gratitude to every veteran, from every era, and to the families who stood beside them. Whether you served overseas or stateside, in combat or in support, your service continues to shape the freedoms and security we depend upon today.

We invite our community to take a moment—today and every day—to reflect on that service, to thank a veteran, and to carry forward the respect they deserve.

Relief Resources for Airmen and Guardians During the Government Shutdown

As the federal government shutdown continues, many active-duty Airmen, Guardians, civilian employees, and military families are facing uncertainty about upcoming paydays. The October 15 paycheck was issued after funds were temporarily shifted, but future pay cycles—starting with October 31—remain uncertain if the shutdown continues into November.

The Air & Space Forces Association’s national publication recently outlined available relief resources and key points of concern affecting our Airmen and Guardians.

Financial Impacts

  • The shutdown threatens to delay pay for uniformed personnel and civilian employees alike.
  • Dual-income military households face particular strain if one or both paychecks are interrupted.
  • Civilian employees and contractors are already experiencing furloughs and missed pay.
  • If the shutdown extends, the Department of Defense may lack the authority to issue paychecks beyond mid-November.

Assistance and Relief Programs
Several organizations are stepping up to provide help during this period:

  • Air Force Aid Society (AFAS): Has already distributed more than $1 million in emergency assistance to Airmen, Guardians, and their families.
  • USAA: Offering no-interest paycheck advance loans (up to approximately $6,000) to eligible members.
  • PenFed Credit Union: Providing paycheck advances and deferral programs for members who receive federal pay deposits.
  • Other financial institutions serving military and government members are offering “skip-a-payment” and hardship options; check with your bank or credit union for details.

Base-level services supported by non-appropriated funds—such as childcare and libraries—are continuing operations where possible, helping maintain some stability for families.

Recommended Actions

  • Check eligibility with your financial institution for advance or deferral programs.
  • Monitor official updates regarding pay and benefits for active, Guard, and Reserve personnel.
  • Communicate early with landlords, lenders, and utilities if you anticipate payment delays.
  • Seek assistance from non-profit organizations such as the AFAS if you are directly affected.

Why It Matters
Beyond immediate financial strain, the ongoing uncertainty impacts morale, readiness, and family stability across the Air and Space Forces community. Relief programs can help bridge the gap, but they cannot replace the government’s responsibility to pay its servicemembers.

For the full article, visit the Air & Space Forces Association’s national site:
https://www.airandspaceforces.com/shutdown-relief-programs-airmen-guardians/

R.E.D. Friday: Remember Everyone Deployed

R.E.D. Friday — Remember Everyone Deployed

Every Friday, people across the country wear red as a simple but powerful gesture to honor our deployed service members. While they serve far from home, we wear red to keep them close in our thoughts.

Today, May 16, 2025, we mark a special observance of R.E.D. Friday. Let’s take a moment to recognize the sacrifices of our troops and their families — and keep them in mind not just today, but every Friday until they all return safely.

Thank You to the Armed Services YMCA for this reminder and for all they do in support of the military community.